Saturday, November 15, 2008

Confidence Mind Map

Self confidence is the difference between feeling unstoppable and feeling scared out of your wits. Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. Perception is reality — the more self confidence you have, the more likely it is you’ll succeed.

3 comments:

rakesh said...

Confidence is the feeling that you are sure you can complete a difficult or even dangerous task. You ask yourself, "Can I do it?" and then answer, "I sure can."

Feeling confident means you are sure of your skills and ability to succeed in a task. It is an internal determination or judgment of how sure you are of your skills. Lack of confidence means you aren't sure that you can complete an activity successfully.

Your confidence in being able to do something is based on your track record of succeeding in various similar tasks. The feeling of self-confidence is learned and can be passed from one task to another.

You can build your confidence by acknowledging your successes for each step along the way to trying to achieve a goal. The self-congratulations will build and re-enforce your confidence along the way to feeling like a champion.

rakesh said...

The confidence checklist:

1. People who believe in themselves take charge of their actions

2. They act assertively, speak calmly and listen properly

3. They're flexible towards people, circumstances and all things new

4. They're able to give genuine praise and to accept constructive criticism

5. They evaluate themselves realistically

6. They appreciate their achievements

7. They learn from their mistakes

8. They aren't run by 'shoulds', 'musts' and 'ought tos'

9. When an opportunity comes up they say 'Why not?' rather than 'Why?'

10. They feel they can influence situations and outcomes.

Supriya said...

I agree with you Rakesh. Confidence is nothing but a feeling of certainty that comes from deep within you.

We all our confident about doing certain things whereas not confident about doing some other things.
This confidence comes from our experiences, our self belief, circumstances and so on.

Wont it however, be simply great that all of us would be confident to do anything and everything under this sun.

A new things comes our way and we muster the confidence to get it done.

Believe me, its possible.

Having a positive attitude and self belief it surely is.

Just say to yourself: I am calm and confident. My sub conscious mind is full of riches...it has the answers to all the questions that I will ever come across.It will bring to my disposal everything I need to tackle this obstacle.

Friends with this affirmation...Be sure, Our Genie will help us sail through every situation.

Believe in the power of your sub conscious and trust it....

All the very best...Come lets unravel and discover all our hidden powers and riches.